When we think of minority led businesses we think of people of color, and we should. During these trying times for Asian people, for example, we absolutely should be not only shouting Stop Asian Hate! but also promoting and frequenting Asian businesses. Last year, my friend -who is Puerto Rican- and I correlated and led Buffalo, NY’s Stop Asian Hate march but aside from that we also frequented various Asian and Asian American businesses, and still do, among the diverse and beautiful Asian cultures.
However, a minority led business isn’t only a business led by people of color.
First of all, what is a minority owned business? It is a business owned and operated by people from a marginalized community. A group of people who are discriminated by the more powerful members of society and/or by the government, and usually by other very big and powerful organizations like how Black women are treated terribly by the medical industry and pharmaceutical industry. A minority owned business is a business owned by people still struggling for their basic rights:
*Veteran owned
*Disabled owned, this includes people with a mental illness.
*Women owned
*LGBT owned
*Owned by a person of color.
*Owned by someone from a non dominant minority religion that typically still faces oppression. By the way, for those who are Christian living in the United States, you are far from oppressed because of your religion so don’t even try that here. This isn’t Communist China, or Iran or Egypt or the many other nations where you can be imprisoned or worse tortured and killed for being Christian.
These are examples of minority owned businesses that you will see across the United States.
TurboPup is a veteran owned woman owned business. It helps keep dogs healthy and gives back to dogs in animal shelters and to veterans.
Combat Flip Flops is a male veteran owned business selling flip flops in war zones. It helps to put Afghani girls through school.
Barre Centric is a woman owned fitness business in East Aurora, NY.
Covell Chiropractic is a woman owned chiropractic business specializing in pregnant women and women with newborns in the city of Buffalo, NY.
Allentown Cafe in the city of Buffalo, NY is a Black owned business.
Big Basha Beauty in the city of Buffalo, NY is a Black owned business.
Tiny Thai is an Asian owned woman owned business in the Buffalo, NY area.
Tokyo II is an Asian owned business on Delaware Ave in the city of Buffalo and hands down the best Japanese restaurant in my opinion in the Buffalo area.
The Rolling Explorer is a woman owned disabled owned business.
Candidly Kind is a woman owned disabled owned business by a woman who has Down Syndrome.
Of course, a business can be disabled owned and not run, operated or owned by a woman.
Ginew is a Native American owned business.
Sacred Circle Gifts and Arts is a Native American owned business giving a platform to other Indigenous artists.
Latina Boulevard Foods LLC is a Latinx/Hispanic owned business in Cheektowaga, NY a suburb of Buffalo.
El Canelo is a Mexican American owned business located in Hamburg, NY across from the McKinley Mall. Three towns emerge there so I may have the address wrong. I personally find it to be the best Mexican restaurant in the Buffalo area.
Aura Salt Save in East Amherst, NY is a LGBT owned business.
His and His Studio is a LGBT owned business in the city of Buffalo.
As you can see I promoted primarily businesses in my neck of the woods.
Now, personally speaking, I do understand how White people, such as myself are privileged and I do understand how White males who are heterosexual and identify as the sex they were born are privileged. There is no arguing that.
However, I will say that men, including White men who do not classify as disabled, LGBT or veteran can definitely be discriminated, and who are also not adopted. Look how many men as infants endure sexual torture and painful mutilation through the completely unnecessary practice of circumcision. I don’t care what your doctor or son’s pediatrician said, it’s complete and utter poppycock and completely unnecessary. If the entire nation of Finland’s men are uncircumcised you needn’t be too. Men of any race are also discriminated severely by the adoption industry, especially in the states of South Carolina and Utah, where their rights to parent are completely obliterated, even if they can parent. Men, including White straight men, are also more likely to be ignored or not believed when they call for domestic violence charges against an attacking female partner.
Finally, there are no domestic violence shelters for men yet make up 50% of the survivors and victims in domestic violence.
As you can see, I didn’t promote any adoptee owned businesses. Why? Is it because there aren’t any? Of course, there are. Is it because adoptees aren’t minorities? No, we most definitely are and we are a severely marginalized community.
It is because society, regardless of the country it is in, doesn’t recognize adoptees as being marginalized and as being minorities because of the lies, corruption, and deceit by the propagandist multibillion dollar completely uncredentialed adoption industry.
In fact, due to the sheer ignorance caused by the industry, and by people knowing the truth and wanting to stick their heads in the sand, adoptees are believed to be lucky. Toxic positivity and sheer ignorant comments are often said to adoptees such as:
*You’re lucky to be alive.
*I wish I were adopted into a loving family.
*You’re so lucky, your adoptive parents sacrificed so much for you. or You’re so lucky, your biological parents sacrificed so much for you.
*You must be so lucky, cherished, and loved.
And while these statements can be true they are never said in a way to actually mean kindness and this is guaranteed by what the ignorant person continues to say, including a brainwashed adoptee.
*You’re lucky to be alive is followed by, and not aborted. When adoption isn’t the answer to abortion and non adoptees are actually more likely to have risked being been aborted than adoptees. (Guttmacher Institute)
*You’re so lucky your parents sacrificed so much for you. Is followed up with only adoptees needing to be thankful that their parents provided them the basics that every child deserves. Society expects adoptees to be grateful that their adoptive parents put a roof over their head and gave them an education, etc. This is basic care of a child and no child or adult needs to be thankful for what should be done for every child on this planet.
*I wish I were adopted into a loving family is often said by people who endured child abuse. I too wish they had been raised in a family that loved them, accepted them and cherished them but it is a completely false belief that all or even most adoptive households are just that. Yes, many are and many people who do adopt actually do rescue children from abusive households, I won’t deny that, but adoption is not a guarantee of a better and safe and loving home, especially for children of color adopted by White people. As I always state, adoption is never necessary because sealing one’s birth certificate, changing their roots, name, and genealogy, sealing their adoption records and making them second class citizens and financially supporting a multibillion dollar uncredentialed institution responsible for the suicides of many and murders of hundreds of adopted children is abuse.
*You must be so lucky, cherished, and loved can be true. This depends on each individual adoptee, but it’s said with the intention of meaning you needn’t search, you needn’t your adoption records, why do you want to XYZ? It’s said in a rude manner. Adoptees have their owned, varied personal reasons as to why they want their original birth certificate and records and to know their heritage. Often because we have been lied to by adoption agencies, many by their adoptive parents, to reconnect with their ancestors and culture. Many elderly and middle aged adoptees are discovering they are Native American or Jewish as adoption was used throughout the twentieth century in Canada and America to wipe out these people, so when I say adoption is cultural genocide I literally mean it is cultural genocide, and genocide at that.
Of course, LGBTQ adoptees and adoptees of color are the most discriminated adoptees. Did you know LGBTQ adoptees and adoptees of color are six times more likely to die by suicide than the national average? Yet White non LGBT adoptees are also undermined, ignored, and harshly discriminated.
*Some adoptees cannot obtain a passport and cannot leave the United States simply for being adopted.
*Tens of millions of adoptees cannot have their original birth certificate purely due to corruption, lies, and human trafficking done by a murderous, child killing psychopath named Georgia Tann.
*Tens of millions of adoptees can’t have their adoption records due to corruption and adoption agencies wanting to hide a lot of corruption and deceitful lies.
*Adoptees nearly often cannot get biological family medical information including lifesaving medical information.
*Open adoptions are not legally enforceable and 75% of them in the US and Canada close. Many with narcissistic personality disorder are now adopting, give false pretenses that they will keep it open and then immediately closing the adoption or soon after closing the adoption for pure selfish reasons.
*Hundreds of millions of adoptees grow up or grew up having no idea what any of their biological family members look like. It is child abuse to look into the mirror and not know who you look like.
*Twins have been and continue to be separated for profit.
*Adoptees are denied basic rights of knowing who they are and where they come from and this has resulted in adoptees unknowingly having sexual encounters with biological family members they didn’t know were family members.
*White adoptees are four times more likely to commit suicide than the national average.
*Adoptees have the highest rate of mental illness than any other demographic of people due to adoption trauma.
*Adoptees outside of in family adoptions and foster care adoptions are legally purchased people. Adoption is legalized human trafficking. Adoption done by an adoption attorney and adoption agencies is always, I repeat always, done through coercion and lies. This statement comes from decades of research. I have even gone undercover so I am immediate knowledge of the immense amount of deceit these agencies spew, especially in the state of New York. My “favorite” statement ever has to be from posing as a pregnant mom in December of 2018 and receiving a brochure from a NYS agency who told me it’s better to give up a child to them then for one’s husband to leave you.
*Adult adoptees deal with the constant mental abuse of being discriminated, being ignored, being told we’re crazy, and being treated like children.
*Many adoptees often have to carry a stigma, such as that their biological mom was a drug addict which most likely isn’t true and if it is, so what? Many adoptees have to play pretend; being their adoptive parents’ miscarried or never conceived biological child because the adoptive parents are still grieving the loss or the loss of infertility. Adoption agencies harmfully effect many adoptive parents too by never letting them properly heal and get proper therapy for infertility.
*For internationally born adoptees who came to the United States before the year 2000 who were never naturalized now as adults they cannot naturalize themselves. They are not considered US citizens or any citizens. They were brought over here as children, through no choice of their own, primarily from South Korea yet they cannot: marry, vote, rent, work, obtain health insurance, attend college, and so much more. Their suicide rates are six times the national average. *Fortunately, this has changed and after a decades long fight on February 4, 2022 equality was passed.
There is no question and no contest that adoptees are discriminated. That isn’t an opinion but rooted in fact because non adopted people have basic rights given to them that adopted people are denied simply for being adopted.
Yet adoptees are not seen as minorities or marginalized people. This needs to change.
How we can make this change is by getting people who are adopted, no matter what kind of adoptee they are, who own or operate a business to acknowledge their business as an adoptee owned business.
Convince local newspapers to print adoptee owned businesses.
Start websites for adoptee owned businesses.
Advertise that you are an adoptee owned business.
I am the owner and operator of Relax and Refocus with Megan. In fact here on wordpress you can click to my other website that will take you to all of my services and pricing, and what’s coming soon. Relax and Refocus with Megan is my holistic business. As a member of the CTAA and a certified holistic practitioner I offer services in: feng shui, pendulum dowsing, aura reading, tarot with color therapy, crystal healing, sex addiction awareness and solutions, vegan and vegetarian nutrition consultation, and food intolerance consultation, none of which can take the place of your medical provider. I will eventually also be offering services in: feng shui for weight loss, CBT certification, law of attraction, reiki, animal communication, hypnosis, Indian head massage, and acupressure. I’m also a certification psychic and I also do soul paintings.
Relax and Refocus with Megan can be found on Facebook, Instagram at relaxandrefocuswithmegan, Pinterest, and Youtube. It’s best to follow me on Instagram and get the pricing on Facebook. I am happy to work with anybody but specialize in working with children with a parent present, men, LGBT, and adoptees.
relaxandrefocuswithmegan is an adoptee owned, woman owned, LGBT owned, disabled owned business.
If you are an adoptee owned business no matter what you do and no matter how small of a job you have please leave a comment below and promote your business as well.
Adoptee owned business needs to start becoming a trend that is also recognized by state, territorial, and provincial governments through the UK, England, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, the United States and other nations.