Joe Biden, Let Adoptees Help You Win.

Dear Mr. Biden:

I am writing this on behalf of every single American that is adopted whether we are adults or still minors. That’s at least ten million adults, plus adults who don’t know they’re adopted, plus millions of children. I am voting for you because I do not like Trump for a variety of reasons. I will be honest, Mr. Sanders was my initial decision prior to him dropping out.

I see on your official campaign page that you are writing what you will do for specific groups of Americans: veterans, military families, rural Americans, women, older people, LGBT people, Catholic, Latinos, Black people, students, and Asian and Pacific Islander people. Without a doubt a large majority of adoptees cross into those demographics as well. For example, I am an adoptee who is also bisexual, a woman, Catholic and I live in a rural town.

Nevertheless, you can win over even more people by the millions Mr. Biden if you gear your campaign as well to adoptees. It is time to have a president that acknowledges the dire problems of America’s multibillion dollar, uncredentialed loosely regulated adoption industry. It is time to have a president that acknowledges the discrimination of adopted people in the United States and how this has literally killed people and contributed to the high suicide rates and high incarceration rates amongst adoptees especially amongst adopted people of color and adopted LGBT members of society. Past presidents, including fellow Democrats Bill Clinton and Barack Obama, were given the opportunity to fix several of these issues and chose not to. Republicans fair no better as currently the largest money making producing adoption agency Bethany Christian Services is run by DeVos who works for the Trump administration. Trump will not listen to us, but then again Trump won’t listen to reason. Bethany Christian Services, like so many others, has been involved in unethical behavior, corruption, lies, exploitatation, and manipulation and has also profited off of the children being kept in camps at the border.

I’ve been an advocate for adoptee rights and adoption reform for the past twenty years. In late 2017 I was nominated out of thousands of US citizens to audition for Ted Talks edu to discuss psychological problems, the lie of birthparent privacy, and how to implement solutions. Unfortunately, I did not make it to the final round to be on the show.

Mr. Biden, we are requesting you to add adoptees to your campaign concerns and address our issues as well. By making a promise to us you will, without a doubt, can numerous support. You will also prove yourself to be progressive as well as caring about all second class citizens in this beautiful nation of ours and making us all become first class citizens during your presidency. The following information below is what we adoptees need you to add to your campaign and to promise us once you become president. You may fact check everything I say with various organizations such as: The American Academy of Pediatrics, The Donaldson Adoption Institute in which I can give you former President Adam Pertman’s email, Unsealed Initiative, New York State Adoptee Rights Coalition, Saving Our Sisters, and Concerned United Birthparents just to name a few. For economic research on the industry I would strongly advise reaching out to Mirah Riben.

We request you to implement the following in your presidential campaign and during your presidency if elected:

1. Over fifteen thousand people in the United States are illegally adopted through international adoption many of them hailing from South Korea and mostly born in the 1950s through the early 1980s. Their adoptive parents either did not know they needed to naturalize them or purposely chose not to in order to keep them as modern day slaves. Now adults, they are unable to naturalize themselves as United States citizens. They are people without a country who face deportation, and some have been deported, nor are they allowed to legally work, vote, or marry. Both former President Obama and current President Trump have chosen to ignore this horrendous brutality that has led to suicides amongst Asian adoptees. Mr. Biden, we know you can do better by signing all illegally adoptees born outside of the United States as U.S. citizens with full rights. 
2. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics adoptees are four times more likely to commit suicide compared to non-adoptees. This number is exacerbated to even higher dangerous levels if the adoptee is a person of color or a member of the LGBT community, and worse yet if all three. Psychological majors at most universities are not discussing this with psychology students. The traumatic effects of children living in orphanages prior to adoption is discussed, but not other types of adoptees. It is important that we have a stronger program nationwide to address the specific issues of adoption trauma. For decades the adoption industry has muted us adoptees by falsely claiming most adoptees are happy and have suffered no trauma using skewed statistics. Whether or not an adoptee is completely happy with adoption, millions of adoptees are not content with the discrimination and the adoption industry’s tactics and counselors, therapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists need to become better prepared to work with the adoptee population dealing with adoptee trauma which includes but is not limited to: past abuse, current abuse, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and separation anxiety. As president, you would make sure that all two and four year government funded higher learning institutions with psychology majors teach adoptee related material and use actual adoptees to either teach the courses or to verify what is taught is true. 
3. Make the adoption industry credentialed.
4. Currently, across the United States and U.S. territories open adoptions are not legally enforced. This has resulted in approximately seventy five percent of open adoptions closing by the time the child or children are age five, nearly always by the adopters and nearly always not because of safety reasons. In fact, closed adoption is never necessary and is not necessary to keep a child safe. We request that as president make all current and future open adoptions legally enforced so that safe biological family members can have contact with the adopted child which will include: letters, photos, emails, phone calls, school visits if they attend school, and at least four face to face visits per year. Psychological studies have proven that open adoptions are much healthier.
5. Abolish closed adoptions. Any current closed adoptions will become open. Closed adoptions were created several decades ago at a time when unwed pregnancy was seen as horrendous. Mothers were forced to give their children away as punishment for having sex outside of marriage, and were fully blamed for the pregnancy even though it takes two to tango. Closed adoptees suffer enormously high rates of depression and anxiety. The discriminatory act of closed adoption forces people to not know who they get their features from, their heritage, their biological family medical information or updated information, and sometimes a passport.  Closed adoption does not allow an adoptee and biological family member to connect who want to and makes people lose decades together. Due to the inhumane practice of closed adoption I lost thirty two and thirty three years with two biological aunts of mine. Worse yet, many first mothers look for their child but die before they can find them or find their lost to adoption child died young due to suicide, cancer, etc. Closed adoption allows rapists to not be apprehended. It allows biological mothers and biological fathers to be held responsible for their actions. Case in point, closed adoption blames the adopted person for circumstances they did not control. Biological mothers and biological fathers who choose close adoption due so because they are either lied to and told it will make them forget they were ever pregnant or they do it as a means of legalized abandonment. My own biological mother has been referred to as the coldest mother ever by my local police department for her choice in discriminating me, inventing lies about me, and sabotaging my relationships with other biological family members and being pleased with getting rid of me through the legalized abandonment that is closed adoption. My biological father is equally vicious and has threatened me with imprisonment because of his inability to be ever be a responsible adult, and invented legal lies about me. The two were absolutely made for each other. Closed adoption discriminated me, took me away from two fantastic aunts, and supported deplorable behavior for too long not just in my case but in the case of several other closed adoptions. I came from a biological family that had both large amounts of children and money, so there was no excuse for my adoption other than the maintain a certain image within the Catholic church. Most closed adoptions, however, occurred due to force. Whether that is because the open adoption was closed or because the first mother lived in a time where her only option was a closed adoption even though she very much did not want to lose her child. It is falsely believed among the pro-birth population that abolishing closed adoptions and unsealing all original birth certificates will result in more abortions. Mr. Biden, nothing is further from the truth. States with high infant adoption rates already have high abortion rates. Sealing original birth certificates and using closed adoptions has done nothing to lower the rates of abortions in the United States. According to the Guttmacher Institute, the United States would need a very conservative estimate of a 5,400% increase in infant adoptions in order to eradicate abortion in the United States. This is but one reason why its comparing apples to oranges.
6. Sign an executive order to unseal all original birth certificates without redactions. Previous explaination above discussed why a biological parent does not deserve privacy. Furthermore, there is no state or Federal law claiming birthparent privacy. The original birth certificate is not sealed, Mr. Biden, until the adoption is finalized so if a baby is given away or lost to adoption and he or she ends up growing up in the foster care system they keep their original birth certificate with the name of the first mother and possibly father making privacy nul and void. If it were about privacy, and it’s not, the original birth certificate would’ve either never been created or sealed at the time of birth. By signing an executive order you allow good people to reconnect. You will also be helping sheriff and police departments across the nation solve cold case homicides. For too long the multibillion dollar uncredentialed adoption industry has used to the lie of birthparent privacy to not only hide rapists, men who had affairs who possibly brought home a STD to their wives, and corrupt activities, but also has not allowed hard working forensic departments access to mitochondrial DNA when necessary to solve some cold case homicides devastating communities across our nation. Mr. Biden, people deserve what rightfully belongs to them, family deserves to find each other instead of finding a grave, and police ought to be allowed to do their job without a greedy industry being in the way. 
7. There is no reason to be sealing original birth certificates. If a child is adopted as a teenager, for example, from the foster system her original birth certificate is then sealed even though she is well aware of who her abusive biological parents are. Children adopted by gay couples have a falsified amended birth certificate showing that nobody gave birth to them, but instead two dads on the birth certificate. Even if this are extremely loving gay couples, and most of these dads are, it does not make logical sense. Therefore, Mr. Biden, the adoptees of America request that during your presidency you sign an executive order that all adoptees will keep their original birth certificate regardless of age and that a legally binding certificate of adoption will instead be instituted to the adoptive parents. 
8. Stricter regulations on the adoption industry. In 1984, for example, Pennsylvania decided to seal original birth certificates under the false assumption that it would stem the flow of abortions in the state. It has proven not to and now has become a struggle to unseal the original birth certificates with Pennsylavania adoptees caught in the middle and directly effected by someone else’s negligence.
9. Currently, the adoption industry allows minors as young as fourteen years old, twelve in some states, to give their babies to the adoption industry or a private adoption attorney without a trusted adult in that child’s life knowing. Adoption agencies use only propaganda to make a claim that adoption is the best option for the child. Having read the propagandistic material myself pregnant children and pregnant young women are subjected to lies such as a more materialistic family is a better family, your family members aren’t responsible and you shouldn’t ask them to help, you’re being selfish if you keep, and other guilt tripping commentary. In fact, on e adoption agency in New York State in 2018 was so brazen to claim that a married pregnant woman facing possible divorce was better off giving her child away than getting a divorce. Preying on children and vulnerable young women cannot be allowed. Therefore, to enact safety measurements we demand that all pregnant women and girls aged twenty-one and younger who are in contact with an adoption agency must have a trusted adult of their own choice at the meetings whether they are face to face or online be it a parent, other family member, foster parent, or teacher for example. 
10. Adoption agencies like to claim that the adoption attorney paid for by the agency is also representing the pregnant mother or mother of a newborn that has come to the adoption agency, or who has been dragged there by someone else. These vulnerable mothers are unaware a lawyer cannot represent two parties and this is how they are tricked into open adoptions that close or are lied to and told the closed adoption will make them forget. Please sign an executive order barring adoption agencies, adoption attorneys, and private potential adopting couples from doing so and that all biological mothers and biological fathers must have legal represenation of their own not paid for by any adoption agency. 
11. A full FBI investigation into adoptions and foster care placements of children who were illegally obtained or obtained through lies, coercion, and manipulation such as drugging a new mother in the hospital and forcing her to sign relinquishment papers.
12. Employees of the adoption industry, primarily people at the top, have never been brought to justice for putting a child into a home where he or she was murdered or suffered severe child abuse by the adopters. We ask you to bring these people to trial for placing a child in a dangerous home. It is also time that all adopted children until the age of eighteen have a once a year surprise visit by a teacher, police officer, or social worker to make sure the child or children are safe in the home. 
13. Mr. Biden, we ask you to abolish the practice of flying pregnant girls and young women out to different states and leaving them stranded with a newborn and no finances if they change their minds and decide to keep the child, often without their parents or other trustworthy and helpful older adults in their being made aware. This clearly shows time and again that several people do not care about the well being of mom or baby.

These are just some easily obtainable changes you can make Mr. Biden that will guarantee a better life for tens of millions of people because it not only positively effects adoptees but our loved ones as well. Promising and acting upon these thirteen steps are a great way to not only win votes but be a truly excellent president who believes in an America for all. We too are tired of the malarkey, won’t you help us end it?

Sincerely,

Megan DePerro

and millions of others.

Family Preservation in Buffalo, NY.

There are a few family preservation organisations here in the Buffalo, New York area serving primarily inner city residents. Of course, I do wish there were more opportunities for those outside of the city. Nevertheless, I am proud and excited to see yet another family preservation programme helping vulnerable Buffalo families. This is an astounding improvement from the terrible era of when Catholic Charities of Buffalo found every excuse in the book to take away a mother’s, or widowed father’s baby, and give those adoptees lifelong discrimination. I hate Catholic Charities with every fibre of my being and the “good” that they do for some can never replace the atrocities they have committed when it comes to tearing apart families and lifelong discrimination of adoptees.  Of course, they aren’t the only culprits. Now, to only see Adoption Star vanish.

Buffalonians are learning. They are learning the benefits of keeping families together and helping families. We are progressing here in Buffalo, New York and no longer allowing family shame to be the reason to lose babies to adoption. We are no longer looking the other way and claiming it’s not for us to get involved when cases of domestic violence occur. We are breaking the cycle of single motherhood.

Who is at the forefront of this change? Let’s take a look at some of them.

Mother Teresa Home- this Catholic run home for pregnant mothers and mothers of children until the age of three is located on Buffalo’s very rough east side. Formerly, a Polish and German area this area now serves to help primarily Black American mothers and their children, although mothers of all ethnicities live on the east side and come to Mother Teresa Home. Opened in August 2016, the Mother Teresa Home is run by Catholic nuns of the Buffalo diocese.  Here, adoption is not offered on the table.

Unfortunately, adoption is still offered at St. Gianna Pregnancy Outreach Center where the myth that adoption will save babies from abortion is believed. I just wrote them to tell them that adoption causes trauma to mother and child, separation with the biological family, and lifelong discrimination for adoptees and to please promote legal guardianship. Other activists can do their part in asking them to promote legal guardianship when family preservation is just impossible.

The Mother Teresa Home provides spiritual counselling, financial counselling, free daycare, parenting support, parenting courses, mental health counselling, domestic skills, finacial planning and financial skills, parental involvement when your child is school age, vocational training, a place for mothers and their babies to live for the first few years, finishing high school or obtaining a GED, assistance in landing an interview, and more.

The Mother Teresa Home is opened only to pregnant mothers and mothers of babies ages newborn to age three who have been evicted from their homes for getting pregnant or are for any other reason homeless. Ages 16 to 26 are welcome to stay for 18 months.

Buffalo Prenatal-Perinatal Network- Also serving in primarily Buffalo’s urban communities on the west side and east side of Buffalo, Buffalo Prenatal-Perinatal Network offers various programmes to keep families together. 80% of the mothers they serve are women of colour, as the east side is predominately Black American and the west side is predominately Latina American with a growing Southeast Asian immigration population, along with a small percentage of European American families still residing on what used to be a very Italian neighbourhood. They also service south Buffalo, a very Irish American community, Cheektowaga which is a predominately Black American and Polish American town, Lackawanna which is primarily a Muslim and Black American community, and parts of Tonawanda which is a very racially and economically diverse area, and parts of Hamburg which is a very economically diverse European American town. One great thing about the programme is that they remember the importance of fathers. Often fathers want to be involved, but are not shown how or are purposely neglected. The Responsible Fathers Initiative is their 13 week programme that teaches fathers, including young teenage fathers, parenting skills, discipline, being a nurturing father, earning a degree, and job training programmes in order to support their children. Basically, it teaches them how to be a man and a dad. Healthy Families NY teaches child abuse prevention, parenting, healthy choices for families, child development, and self sufficiency. The Community Health Worker Program helps mothers from the tender age of 14 to the age of 44 prevent future teenage pregnancies, prevent premature births, provide postpartum assistance, obtain health insurance, get food and clothing, provide immense support, and a place to live for moms and their children. They have been successfully helping low income families for five years. Of the 2,658 Buffalo and Buffalo suburban families they have assisted, half of the pregnancies of pregnant mothers they’ve cared for have had preterm or low birth rate babies, child abuse has decreased immensely, almost 100% of the babies have their immunisations, and CPS calls are rare. The organisation does well to remember that most of the young parents and low income parents they are assisting come from horrible childhoods themselves, or have escaped from domestic violence. In fact, all mothers in the programme are screened for drug abuse, depression, and domestic violence. Support is given to these women, without their babies and children being automatically given away to adoption.

 

Lies Catholic Family Center of Rochester Adoption Agency Told Myself, My Adoptive Parents, and My Biological Mother.

First, they brought you Lies My Teacher Told Me, an excellent book about the major gaps in our traditional look at the board education curriculum (because teachers’ hands are tied from doing what they want and need to do in their own damn classrooms) and may I just say I always wanted to be homeschooled or unschooled, I begged for years growing up, so when I learned my kept siblings were or are taught at home, it’s the first time in my life I ever felt a twinge of jealousy with a sprouting geyser of sadness over what should have been how I learned as a kid.

Now, comes the sequel Lies My Adoption Agency Told Me. Actually, that sounds quite catchy. Maybe I’m onto something. Anyway, here we go. I was born in the 1980s in Rochester, NY and my agency wasn’t Hillside. Although if you want to read the shady dealings they did pick up your copy of A Hole in my Heart by Lorraine Dusky. Trust me anyone from the Rochester region who reads that book will stop donating to them. Anyone who opens their eyes to the diabolical ways of how the adoption industry works, and it is a lucrative business with no credentials, no oversight, and loose regulations, will stop supporting this business altogether. Again, not saying that truly orphaned children or abused kids don’t deserve a good home, but we don’t need an industry to help those kids.

So, it may seem like nothing but it’s taking me months of courage to write this article. Man oh man did my adoption agency pull the wool over everyone’s eyes, or at least they tried to because since I was a kid I wasn’t buying their games. I’m going to break this down into parts.

Part A. Lies My Adoption Agency Told My First Mother.

1. That closed adoption allows you to move on. Nobody moves on from losing a child to adoption. I have plenty of proof for my own adoption story/nightmare.
2. That closed adoption is equilavent to birthparent privacy (a sugarcoated term for asking your adopted out child to be your dirty secret). It’s not and it’s a huge myth to keep the state and provincial governments from hiding human trafficking deals that happened in the past. Oh, have I got stories for days.
3. Telling my first mother her option of keeping me, but then telling her that adoption is in the best interests of all because a baby deserves a two parent household and she deserves to finish college. The only interest they have is in lining their pocketbooks.
4. Telling my first mother she was supplying an infertile couple with a gift. How much more proof do you need that I am a commodity?
5. Telling my first mother that finishing college was more important than her own child. Like wtf. That’s just beyond sadistic. She didn’t even use her college degree.
6. That she was just the vessel. They objectified my first mother and made her feel that she wasn’t even human but a ship that was going to torpedo out “just some baby” and give the baby (me) to her rightful owners. She was not a vessel she was a pregnant mother.
7. Told her I was better off in a two parent household. Whilst, yes, a child is better off in a two parent household they aren’t always (say a home with non stop fighting). Well, let’s see here. On my bio father’s side there was no way I would be living on that side because of child abuse and the people being children still or way too elderly to care for a baby (in their eighties). However, on my first mother’s side was  a ginormous, non-abusive, middle to upper middle class suburban family with plenty of married relatives. Oh no we couldn’t have them take baby in, the agency wouldn’t turn a profit. Tell the biological grandparents to get over the fact their daughter got pregnant? Pshh. Where’s the money in that? The serious note here folks is this children need a two parent household lie. No, they don’t. Many children benefit from a one parent household. A child needs their biological connections. That isn’t up for debate when it comes from someone who is adopted. Oh and adopted parents can and do divorce at around 50% of couples in the US and Canada thrown out of the window like 15th century loo waste.
8. Telling my first mother to write a letter and sign it as the birthmother. Nothing more than brainwashing a victimized young mother into “we’re going to reiterate you’re just the vessel”. Pearl S. Buck coined the term “birthmother” to make first mothers “know their place” and that was not coined for nice reasons.
9. Having my first mother pick out “the right family” pretty soon after she walked in the door.  That finding me a sibling (and the white picket fence) would make the family complete. Let’s see, young, student, second trimester, in a frenzy and a rush of what to do oh the agencies just love this. You’re right where they want you. I’m sorry mom of adoption loss, but it’s true, they played you and now you see why -at least I hope you see why- I hate them with an undying passion and I am learning to forgive them but I don’t think it’ll ever happen.
10. There’s so much more to part A but at 2:26 am let’s keep going.

Part B. Lies My Adoption Agency Told My Adoptive Parents.

1. That babies are blank slates.
2. That it’s a cure for their infertility.
3. That I’m a replacement for the baby they never biologically had.
4. That I would likely only ask questions on my birthdays.
5. That they can just inquire for biological medical information.
6. That at 21 I would get all the information I need to track down my biological parents.
7. That I didn’t need to know my original name.
8. That I didn’t need to have a connection to my biological family.
9. That I didn’t need to know my heritage.
10. That they would just contact my biological parents if updated medical information was needed. This is such a huge lie that you must read A Whole in my Heart because it applies to all adoption agencies and the epilepsy and extreme danger Hillside, another Rochester agency, put a child in.
11. That my first mother was poor.
12. One lie they told was so ghastly I won’t even write it. About my first mother. I know it isn’t true because she mentioned in the goodbye letter to me that I had my first father’s cleft chin. I’m not trying to exaggerate how bad this agency is,  I am saying it’s one I heard at nineteen and there are certain things even I won’t speak out to the world.
13. That they would reach out to my first mother to try and get her to let me make contact with my biological half siblings (to use the technical term). They legally can’t do that so I called their bluff, which I wrote about in the article below.
14. All they need is to provide a nurturing and loving home. They never were prepared at all to deal with a daughter who has such severe trauma from adoption.

Part C. Lies They Told Me.

1. That my first mother loved me so much she gave me away. Well, if you love someone you don’t give them away. If someone is desperate, is victimized, bullied, shamed, objectified, and then is taught their baby, instead of their circumstances, is the source of a lot of their problems, then they give that little baby girl or boy of theirs away.
2. Lied and said my first mother felt it was best she finished college. No person in their right mind puts their child second to anything. Oh, and she never even used her degree. Nope, months of ritualistically evil brainwashing of “you are just the vessel” “you are just the vessel” (hum the Twilight Zone tune, hey Rod Serling was also from Rochester) “you’re providing a wonderful gift” makes mothers and fathers put their kids last.
3. Told me in one story she was in college for special education. Then tells me in another piece of paper she was not in college.
4. Tells me on one hand my biological father threatened to sue for custody and keep me. Tells me on the other hand he thought adoption was a great idea. Well, which one is it Paco?
5. Has my first mother write me a letter of goodbye, forced with the signature “you’re birthmother” and has her lie on it and say I was named Mary after the Virgin Mother. The Virgin Mother tells me she weeps for your sins and to leave God out of your lucrative, defiled, and sinful industry. She weeps for the pain you have caused.

 

Up yours adoption agency of mine! I’m going to bed.

Peaceful and pleasant dreams everyone, and it’s time all to come out of the closet of shame, guilt, and denial. I refused to let mine stay in the closet, and it’s only going to make her stronger if she accepts it and learns I’m not the bad guy in this, but the people involved in making her lose thirty plus years with her child (me). Her child, her child, her child, her  ! (clap hands) child.

PS. This isn’t even all of it.

 

Whites Aren’t the Only Racist People. A Look at Adoption Out of Korea in the 1950s and 1960s.

Oh, let’s see how many far left liberals I piss off with this article. Truth hurts, doesn’t it? You often hear from far left liberal that only White people can be racist. You also hear the myth about White privilege. After being followed around in an art museum (mind you owned by my former neighbours who passed away) by a woman of colour, after working in a predominately Black school where a White child was beat up for being White, and after working with White children so poor they were living in barns and cars in a New York State winter we can put that myth aside.

You often hear, wrongly, from far left liberals that Whites are in a position of power and therefore only Whites can be racist. Nothing could be further from the truth and this article on race, war, international relations, and adoption will prove it. Sorry liberal universities, you’re about to take a seat.

During the Korean War, GIs when not engaged in combat were often having sex with the local native women. I’m sure, disgustingly, some even engaged in sexual assault. Korean culture during the 1950s, and after the Korean War in the 1960s, not only looked down upon biracial people but wanted them exterminated!

Under Korean law, any child born in Korea could not be shipped out of Korea. In fact, to save the life of one biracial Korean/White baby it took a Catholic priest and nun to play a hand of poker and get a Korean immigration official completely plastered.

So why the extreme need to save this child’s life (whose name is now Daniel Keenan and was named George Cruz by the US Navy who took care of him on the USS Point Cruz)? Biracial babies were literally starved to death in Korea. Biracial babies were seen, by Korean society, as such a monstrosity that when the US Navy found this biracial baby in a garbage heap the Korean workers at the orphanage refused to feed him, and thought he should die. Thus, he was brought on board where 1,000 sailors got glimpses of baby George (then renamed Daniel) and some got to rock him, hold him, feed him, and change him.

You have to be an extreme racist to feel the need to murder a baby through the slow torture of starvation, and you have to be-pardon my language-utterly fucked up in the head. I cannot fault whoever his first mother is because she knew that no matter where she put her baby he was going to starve to death because he’s mixed race, and she knew babies born in Korea are not let out.

How many biracial babies and children died in Korea in the 1950s and 1960s through the racist actions of a nation? I always say if absolutely nobody in the family can raise the baby, and there has been signs of severe abuse or neglect, then go the adoption route (without sealing one’s original birth certificate and keeping medical information away from them).  As stated in a previous article, it’s grassroots efforts that are needed to implement change. Adoption is a plaster solution to a society’s gaping wound.

That’s precisely what happened in South Korea. Grassroots efforts took hold. Although many Koreans, including many Korean adoptees, feel people should date within their own race they no longer murder babies who are born of mixed race. You can think what you want. I know people who are Chinese, Korean, Native American/First Nations, and White who refuse to date outside of their race from “because my Mom wouldn’t approve” to “I’m only sexually attracted to my own kind.” “to Native Americans/Whites only make up a small percentage on this globe and I want to expand that number.” I also know people who have children of biracial background. Do what you want, believe what you believe, but bottom line the fact people were killing children for how they look is ghastly.

So the next time a far left liberal wants to tell you only Whites are racist remind them of the biracial babies left to die because of who their parents were.

Did adoption of the rescued biracial babies and children end in a win win for these biracial Korean born adoptees? Not entirely. They too face a lot of discrimination and many were never granted US citizenship and are now facing deportation (read my article on 15,000 Koreans At Risk for Deportation With Some Deported Under Trump).